When providing support, you should avoid saying the following phrases.

On the surface, these phrases may be meant to comfort the survivors, but they can be misinterpreted.

Phrases to Avoid Saying:

“I understand.”

“Don’t feel bad.”

“You’re strong” or “You’ll get through this.”

“Don’t cry.”

“It’s God’s will.”

“It could be worse,”

“At least you still have…”, or “Everything will be okay.”

It is okay to apologize if the survivor reacts negatively to something that was said.